When I grow up...

Rara: When i grow up, I want to have my own family. I will have a good wife and 11 children, 6 girls and 5 boys. I will be a good father and I will not discipline my kid. When I am 40 yrs old, my wife is 28 and my kid will be 16....
Momi: Whoa, your wife is pretty young hor? You have a age difference of 12 years...
Rara: 28 is good.
Momi: Oh, ok.... but if your wife is 28, how can your kid be 16??? This means your wife will have the baby when she is 12 yrs old...
Rara: ...... (don't understand the implication).... but 16 yrs is good.... *puzzled look*
Momi: ok, never mind. But why do you want 11 kids? That's way too many....
Rara: 11 is a good number!
Momi: I suggest you have 1 kid first then decide whether you want to have another... Like Momi and Dadi. We had you and we decided 1 kid is good...
Rara: Cannot lah. I want 11 children... *determined look on face*
Momi: ok lah, up to you but I don't want to help you take care hor. You and your wife take care of your 11 children. Momi and Dadi are going to migrate to New Zealand and retire in peace.
Rara: Then I come over and visit you?
Momi: Sure, can.
Rara: But I will be a good daddy and I won't discipline my children. I won't cane them and I won't put them in cold shower.
Momi: But if your children are naughty, you have to discipline them so that they would learn to be good.
Rara: But I do not know how to discipline. You discipline for me?
Momi: No! They are your kids, you discipline yourself!
Rara: But I don't know how to.... *difficult look on his little face*
Momi: Parents have all rights to discipline their children. If you do not discipline them, they will not learn how to be good. Next time, if they get into big trouble, the Police will catch them and then put them in jail. Then, it would be too late.
Rara: But I do not know how to discipline. Maybe my wife can discipline the kids?
Momi: Momi also don't know how to discipline and I am learning along the way on how to discipline you. But you will learn it as you grow up and next time, you can discipline your own kids. Ok? We learn together?
Rara: Ok *smile*